Get injected with the spirit of positive, creative and supportive people who appreciate your special talents and life experiences. When you can’t believe in yourself you can always tap your fan club for support.

I’ve been rejected by colleges, companies, boyfriends. But it always turned out to be the right thing for me. I love my husband, job and educational experience.

I don’t mean to be Zen but if it’s meant to be then it will be. If you really love St. Thomas talk to a guidance counselor. Find out how you can improve your application or test scores.

Also, consider why you applied to St. Thomas in the first place. Can other schools meet those needs? What academic degree/opportunities/career do you hope to gain from attending a university?

When I was growing up I wanted to attend a private, expensive liberal arts college. Instead, I attended two community colleges and graduated from St. Cloud State University with my bachelor’s degree. I also wanted to be a ballerina. That never panned out. But heck, it’s never too late to reach for your dreams.

I took an adult ballet class several years ago and was truly no good at dancing. But at least I got to wear a leotard, ballet slippers and a bun in my hair for a few months. And now I’m working on my master’s degree at Hamline University. Did you know that Hamline is Minnesota’s first university, founded in 1854?

So don’t give up on yourself Adam. You’re good enough, smart enough, and gosh darnit, we like you.